好男人的定義

有一天我問麥克.....

L: What's your defination of a good man?
M: Respects and treats others well.
L: That's it?
M: Faces his responsabilities and doesn't do anything to purposely hurt others.
L: But you know lot of people when they are having a affair, they are not doing that on purose. so..they find a way. Hide, and tell more lies.Because they don't want to hurt their partner. And they thought thwey are right.
M: But having an affair goes against facing responsability . I think someone who treats his partner fair and evenly. Doesn't put himself first all of the time, it's a good man.
L: But I think the reality is always mopre diffcult. So do your best.
M:Yeah. I think it is someone who can do and try their best for a long period of time .
L: mm, that is a good man.
M:Not someone who is good for a short time, but who is good all the time .
L:yeah .....
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原來愛也是要有持久力才行。